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Kind 3 42.86%
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Old 04-08-2013, 08:37 AM   #1
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Being kind or "Be mean to keep them keen"?

Would you be kind and courteous or would you play "be mean to keep them keen"? I suppose there is a middle ground, but you'd have to play it carefully.

I don't really agree that being mean would really keep someone for long, to an extent you may have to show distance rather than total devotion, but it just plays with the persons emotions and can make them confused I guess.
I don't really know whether to go with kind or a middle ground, I definitely wouldn't completely go with being mean though.

What do you guys think?
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Old 04-08-2013, 10:03 AM   #2
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Old 04-08-2013, 11:24 AM   #3
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being kind or mean to who?
About which person/persons is this about?
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Old 04-08-2013, 11:51 AM   #4
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being kind or mean to who?
About which person/persons is this about?
I think it's referring to a lover/crush.

Just be yourself.

That said, there is a point at which it gets unhealthy. I have a friend in real life who spends every waking moment of her life kissing her boyfriend's butt and he's quite literally all she can talk about. She has no life or identity of her own anymore, her identity is that she's ______'s girlfriend. Everytime he's out of town literally all she does is cry and wait for him to return whilst feverishly texting him 24/7. He loves her and all, but at the same time he hasn't forgotten who he is and he knows how to still be his own person with his own hobbies and life. (And they've been dating for a long time, so this isn't just her being in the "honeymoon phase".)

Just make sure it doesn't get to that point...
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Old 04-08-2013, 12:37 PM   #5
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I don't think any of the denizens of NFF have ever seen me truly mad here, but I'm quite aggressive (verbally and physically). I'm also a really nice guy though, and I treat everyone with respect until they give me an excuse to treat them otherwise. Ask anyone who's ever stepped on my toes if they'll ever mess with me again, they'll probably say no.

EDIt: I just realized this somehow has to do with your significant other? You should make that more clear. I pick on Alli a lot and always did, but I wasn't trying to be mean to her. Teasing people is how I show affection.
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Just be nice to people generally. Never hurts, and pays off, makes you feel good, etc. Just generally. Don't give special attention past that unless you're close.
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I was mostly referring to a significant other/crush, but it's interesting to know how people would act around others too. I could have asked as well if you'd treat either one differently, but I didn't think of that until now ;P
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