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Old 02-05-2014, 01:13 PM   #1
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Hey everyone. Hope everything's going well. I was up all night playing chess and around 9:00am give or take, decided to walk down to Tim Hortons for a cup of jet fuel. I'm walking in and this rather large woman was getting out of her car. It was close so I held the door open for. (I'm such a gentleman)

Anyway, as she is walking in this girl who must be at least 14-15 with her friends with so much makeup on you'd need a chisel to remove it, made a remark about the lady's weight by saying: "Look! That woman has two asses!" She meant this because the lady had a rather large butt coupled with a big belly. There's a high school nearby, so my guess is they were from there.

The woman responded. Clearly hurt by the remark and said to the girl with the big mouth that she should apologize and said to her: "How would you like it if I told your mother what you said?" Just as I'm about to let the little punk have it with a tsunami of nasty words, the girl responded by laughing and said: "I don't have a mother bitch!"

At this point I started feeling more pity than anger for the girl. I kept my mouth shut and went in to get my coffee. My parents love me very much
and have always been there for me. I don't know the pain that comes from not having parents so I'm not going to pretend I do.

For any member(s) here who are in this situation, you have my deepest sympathies. I hope this thread doesn't stir up any hurtful feelings. It must be truly awful. Even though the girl was out of line, she must have one painful life. Possibly a life so rough that it would kick my ass. If I'm correct, she is suffering and if she isn't laughing all of the time from any
source she could find, she'd most likely be crying in pain on a daily basis. I'm not advocating disrespect to others. Remarks like that are very painful for a person of a + size. I think that a lot of people seem to forget that under all of that weight a heart still beats and can be hurt and broken like everyone else's.

That girl's remark made me think about just how fourtunate I am to have a mother that loves me. You only get one and she's my life. I guess the point here is that you never truly know someone and what they may or may or not be going through in life. Maybe this girl would have turned out different if her mother was there for her. For anyone who is on bad terms with the ones you love, try your best to make up. God only knows what I'd do if I woke up tomorrow to found my mother dead. Although it would still crush me to lose her, at least I have comfort in the knowledge that she didn't die the day after we had some stupid anger filled argument or something.

I know that this has been a long read, but important imo.

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Old 02-05-2014, 01:21 PM   #2
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How do you just non-chalantly say 'I have no mother' to someone else? How can than not hurt you on the inside?

People these days worry me. I'd be lost without my parents, namely my mother.
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Old 02-05-2014, 01:30 PM   #3
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Those feels.
I don't have my mum either. The fact that she laughed and added "bitch" on the end of it makes me feel angry though. If some stupid high school kid came up to me and said "I banged your mum last night" I'd say straight up "That's pretty sick considering she's dead." Wouldn't call him a name or laugh about it though.
I feel sorry for her, but she sounds like a piece of work. Maybe not having a mother messed her up though. It can if you're too young.

I'm glad you appreciate your parents though. Not many people realise how important they are in time, myself included.
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How do you just non-chalantly say 'I have no mother' to someone else? How can than not hurt you on the inside?

People these days worry me. I'd be lost without my parents, namely my mother.
Well. I guess maybe it was her way of dealing with it. One could simply call the girl a mouthy little bitch, which was about what I was going to call her until she made the remark. It just got me thinking about how important my mother is to me, and I'm 38yo!

I have difficulty believing that children are born nasty. As adults, we corrupt them. This girl somehow summoned the audacity to insult this lady the way she did, learned it from somewhere. I'm not a parent, but at the same time it must be next to impossible to keep an eye on a child 24/7. Maybe she wasn't raised to respect her elders? Maybe her friends made her that way. It's hard to say. To say what she said with such disrespect is because she may have a real hard life and has become hardened by society. That, and almost all young kids that age are mouthy. When I was young if I made a remark like that to a person who is struggling with their weight, my mother would have disciplined me for it. I'm certain of that.




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Old 02-05-2014, 03:35 PM   #6
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You never know if it's true to be fair. Almost everyone I'd ever had a childish argument with back when I was a kid said their mother or father was dead. Since she started laughing as well she's either heartless or lying.

Not to ruin your thread obviously, your point is still important.
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You never know if it's true to be fair. Almost everyone I'd ever had a childish argument with back when I was a kid said their mother or father was dead. Since she started laughing as well she's either heartless or lying.

Not to ruin your thread obviously, your point is still important.
I was about to say this. I would hope that if her mother was deceased, she wouldn't have said that and laughed about it. You can't really know if she's telling the truth or not, but something tells me, she was lying to get out of trouble.

It's still a sad reality that kids grow up without their parents, and like you said, it's important to bridge the gaps and make amends with family members you are on bad terms with.
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